being dumped!!!!

Almost every human in their youth have at least one relationship.

Love is in the air............

your 32 teeth are always on display....

you are always on the phone or texting...

you start forgetting your friends

your number is busy all night long....

you create bahaanas to get money out of your parents to get your cell recharged...

and sometimes, your grade comes down...

anyways... you are in love so dont bother much...

but

but

but

after a bed full of roses, you come across some of the harsh realities of life...

and the final gift of this endless love is a BREAKUP...

The reasons may be many,

* The guy is not serious

* The girl is not serious

* The guy tends to get overpossesive

* The girl does not give him any space

* Either of them thinks that there is no future in the relationship

whatever,

the funny thing is the way people react to the beakup...

the reactions are very different, unique yet common....

i'll share a few

~ a friend of mine decided that he won't take any girl seriously since his girlfriend dumped him cause of no reason

~ a girl tried to cut her self...

~ another guy friend decided not to talk to any girl.....

~a very close friend called that guy to ccd, broke up, payed the bill and never talked to that guy, who was just playing around

~ someone gets so depressed that they need a doctor

~ someone starts boozing and smoking

~ someone tries his level best to get back

~ someone decided that no matter they are not going back

All these reactions to a breakup expresses how weak they are, how dependent they are on the other person.

Why is it that love makes us so dependent on someone that we can't even stand on our own....

We can't carry on, we can't move on....

i had a breakup too, i also cried, i also was very weak untill one day my friend 6 years elder to me told me his story.....

when he was living his life after what happened,i decided to start all over again.

Now i feel like i am strong enough to be what i was...

and waiting for the right person to enter...

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Guys and girls, enjoy this valentines, but always remember, but remember one thing

you get this small life once, learn to live the realities...

enjoy....

and my valentines this year is me only

cus now i love myself more than anyone!!!

luv

sub!!!

PS: this is not the case with all the love stories, some people are blessed with just one relationship, which ends up in marriage...